The hidden cost of people pleasing. How to stop abandoning yourself in your romantic relationship
In this powerful episode, we dive into the deep roots of people pleasing—how it shows up in romantic relationships, how it’s entangled with your family system, and why healing it isn’t just about setting boundaries… it’s about reclaiming your truth.
What Morpheous says about Jack & Rose (and the Bwiti)
A simple 10 second hack to KNOW THYSELF
The most important thing for genuine growth, flow in life and functional relationships is to be honest with yourself. There is one moment of the day where you can know your TRUTH, for sure. And with this, you can build your life…
depressed. watching star wars.
How my ‘depressed parts’ wanted to handle all the feelings… and what I did next.
4 Films I think you’ll like
Four more additions to my list of all-time favourite films and TV to open your heart, mind and spirit rather than dumb down and clog up your energy system.
Affirmations not working? Here’s why
You want money and a relationship, but do ALL your parts want that?
How to be decisive (+ trust your decisions)
Decisiveness wasn’t my gift until my mentor revealed one way to always know if I’m doing the right thing.
who’s caitlyn? here’s some intimacy (into-me-you-see)
About me!
my uncharming & profound question
The wind was strong on the Portuguese coast as I walked alongside J and her daughter, K. This kid fascinated me….
What the back of your head wants to tell you
You need a mirror to see what you can’t see…
living in a comfort zone or a comfort trap?
Comfort zone or comfort trap? The thing is, even though you have an exceptionally well-curated home with all the lovely paraphernalia, you can still be unhappy… Why?
Need to pee? Thirsty? Tired? What this can mean for your healing journey
Update your nervous system and let it know that your needs matter and you’re safe now: listen to your body and follow it’s cues!
40 year old boys. 40 year old girls. 40 year old kids.
Who we are as adults depends on what experiences we had as kids. Our childhood is part of what makes us. How do you see it impacting you now?
"Hello sweetheart, I’m listening" — words said to my inner anxiety
What I did when I woke up anxious…
(FREE) A 10-day retreat near you | Vipassana
I did Vipassana, the 10-day silent meditation Buddha gave to find liberation…. And here’s what happened
Becoming a master of your life: look for the little signals asking for change
Everything has a beginning. Everything starts small, from a first step. It’s possible that your system is giving you signals to make a change. To start something. To stop something else. With this change, your life will begin to really get momentum. For you to become more YOU.
What a half-crumpled receipt and a pen from the dentist can do for your mental health
Do you feel like your mind is running too fast? Like there are many opposing voices speaking at the same time Perhaps there are 17 thoughts going at once… And you’re about to pop? Here’s what to do.
When you act like Edward Scissorhands
I love Edward Scissorhands. But have you noticed how you or people you love might have scissorhands too? Everytime you come close, you get cut instead of caressed. Punctured instead of held. Accidentally... You want to come closer to someone, but then you somehow end up pushing them away...
Sexuality, spirituality, Bwiti + growth: a talk with me and my first spiritual father
I'm delighted to participate in this conversation about sacred sexuality as a path of spiritual evolution with Gregory Puente, my first spiritual father.
join me for the MODERN COUPLES SUMMIT online (free)
I'm giving a talk at the second edition of The MODERN COUPLES SUMMIT (FREE), taking place 24 September - 24 October, 2024. Join now.